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| upon further review of some of my favorite books i've come across some rather good explanations to help me with my understanding, so here goes
ego--self identifying with material--illusion
soul--self identifying with infinite
Self/Atman/Brahman
Who tastes
Who smells
Who feels
Who hears
Who thinks
Not the body, but the self perceives all of these things
what? i'm making progress here, alright?
if i've made some error in judgement please correct it, Thank you in advance.
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| SCThornley - 2006-07-19 10:12 AM
ego--self identifying with material--illusion
soul--self identifying with infinite
Self/Atman/Brahman
Who tastes
Who smells
Who feels
Who hears
Who thinks
Not the body, but the self perceives all of these things
Dear SCT,
I think you are considering : Self = Atman = Brahman; right ?
If that is true, then your inference is not correct. Self is the Knower & the Knowledge - the infinite conciousness. Taste, Smell, Feel, hearing sound & thoughts are related with your sense organs & the mind. All These are within body. There are different instruments by which "you" percieve :
i) Sense Organs - Lowest level
ii) Mind - Next higher level
iii) Intellect ( The power of descrimination ) - Much higher level
iv) Atman/Self - The highest level
The perception of the same thing will vary depending upon what instrument you use. The mind can control the sense organs. The intellect can control mind & the self can control all. Once the self awakens, the perception changes completely - It is not the same what you percieve by your sense organs or mind or Intellect.
Self is Pure, omnipotent, infinite conciouness. However, till the layer of ignorance is removed we keep on enjoying foolishly through our sense organs & the mind. Your instrument of enjoyment determines at what level you are. The self doesn't need anything to enjoy because it always enjoys eternal bliss which is far superior.  | |
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| Is it the self that is receiving the data that all the organs and the mind and intellect are transmitting?
Behind all of these tools, isn't the self that weilds them?
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| Yes, self is the master. However, due to ignorance/illusion which binds self, there is an illusion of ego - the sense of "I". This "I" appears to drive everything & percieves joy or pain. This "I" looks real till the dirt of ignorance is there over the self. All the joys & pains are percieved & all the actions are done by the sense organs, other body organs & the mind. Combination of all these, creates a false sense of "I". This cover of ego/"I" remains even after death, even in heaven/hell. The cover of ego breaks only on liberation & then self becomes free of cycle of life & death.
Is it the self that is receiving the data that all the organs and the mind and intellect are transmitting?
This all is recieved by "I" only. Self doesn't get involved. When Self realisation comes, Self starts "seeing" actions being performed by sense organs & mind in "Witnessing state". | |
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| I'm having trouble with ego. Okay, ego is the part of us that identifies with the material. I imagine this means while we're here it's a nessesary part of our life as human. The problem I see is being able to see past your ego. Is this right? So I'm thinking ego gets a bad rap because society is using the term interchangably with egotism. Also, my hero had a large ego which I think gave him the confidence to accomplish things he was told just weren't possible. Therefore I would think his ego served him well. I wouldn't say he was an egotist, because he wasn't arrogant, or boastful. He respected people, and connected well with people. He was confident in his abilities. I say his ego was large because on occation something unrelated to him would happen, and he would think it was about him. I figured that was a small price to pay when you weigh it against the benefits his ego brought him. This is like taking things personally, right? Which we all do, at least sometime during our lives. Sometimes even when we know better. I constantly have to remind myself that most often another person's reaction has nothing to do with me. It's mostly about how the other person has been conditioned to respond due to their own life situations. I could be the action that causes the reaction, but I didn't create the reaction. I don't want to view my ego as the bad guy, but as a part of life on earth. If I truly had no ego would I even know what to do here? Could I even make simple choices? Would I have a personality? I think I need one while I'm here. Is my logic wrong? | |
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| My dear friend, there is nothing good or bad as such in absolute sense. You must have heard somewhere - "A garbage is actually a thing in the wrong place". Ego ... if it is not there, how will you know yourself ? If ego is not there, I am as good as a stone.
The ego helps you survive. Ego helps you learn & grow. Ego helps you achieve higher things in life.
However, the "ego" attaches you to this world. In fact, the "ego" what we are talking here is slightly subtler. The feeling of "I" is ego - the sense that you are different from others is ego - the sense that you have an identity is ego. Because of this ego, we think "I do"/"I enjoy"/ "I give" etc. There is nothing good or bad about it. If you want liberation - you have to drop this ego. You have a choice to make. | |
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| Thank you devotee, but I have more questions. Okay, so you drop your ego on the path to liberation. Liberated people still have to survive though, so when they step out into the real world, they pick their ego back up? Are they still liberated? I'm confused, or no wait, my ego is confused. | |
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| A good question, I must say !
See, once you are able to achieve the state which is "ego-less" ( without "I") even for a while, the world around you changes. Now, when you go back to the real world, you are a changed person to some extent ( this extent will vary widely depending upon many things). You start seeing things with a different perspective. Your journey starts with that. Then you keep on practising & achieve higher & longer periods of "ego-less" state (like samadhi). Finally, when all attachments are gone & all Karmas are gone, you are liberated.
Now when you come back to the original world & "pick up your ego" ( you will never pick it up like an ordinary person, if you are really liberated), will you still remain liberated ? Lord Krishna says in Gita : Once you "attain Knowledge" (aka, are liberated), your Karmas become seedless. Nothing attaches you. The good karmas or the bad karmas - they bear no fruit. You are like an Ocean in which all rivers of Karma flow in but they no longer disturb the everlasting peace of the great Ocean. Rules of Karmas /ego/"I" etc. apply on the ordinary people - they don't apply on the enlightened one.
P.S. : I don't consider myself an authority on this subject. My reply is based on my understanding of the Gita, Upanishads, Advait, Buddha's teachings & teachings of various other masters on this issue. Thanks for discussing this issue.  | |
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| these are good issues to discuss
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| Okay devotee, as you say, you're no expert, I will say I'm truly ignorant. I know some terminology, and some theory, but understanding is coming one millimeter at a time. This nonattachment theme, is that the Buddist ideal of nonattachment? As a mother, really I have a hard time with this. I think how nice for them that they can feel this way, but in my physical reality, I just don't see it as possible. Maybe I have something wrong in my thinking, but my love for my children is a real bond, I can't even see it as undesirable even if it ends up hurting in the long run. Also, in one book I read, one part of the definition on Samadhi was feeling a connection to all things. I'll warn you, and say I have a problem with language, but to me connection and attachment are very similar words. So, thanks again for helping me out here. | |
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| BQ - non-attachment is not the same as not caring and certainly not the same as non-loving. I find this is a VERY difficult subject when we get to the mother/child connection. My own understanding of this came from working with other people's kids both before and after having my own. Pre-motherhood, I had deep emotional connections with the kids I worked with. When they cried, i felt their pain, and had that deep, aching need to ease their own pain so I could ease my own. Once I had my own and felt that heart connection with them, I was able to step back from the kids I worked with and, although I love them, I no longer carry an emotional burden around them. I can look at one of my toddlers who has fallen down and unemotionally assess the situation - whether they are really hurt or just crying for attention. I respond just as quickly as I did before (maybe more quickly, since I don't have to calm my own reaction first) if there is a real injury, but don't have that sense that I am hurting as much as they might be.
And mother-to-mother here, this is a good thing to cultivate as your girls move into the stage of bringing boyfriends home. Good to be able to suspend judgement when they are, shall we say, less than we are hoping for and also for letting go when they break up with the one you might think is "THE ONE." I still miss some of my kid's ex's  | |
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| devotee - 2006-07-23 8:35 AM
Choice is yours !
fruitless action?
that causes no pain
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| so, how to act without creating fruit
because no matter how sweet the fruit once it is gone, you want more--therein lies the pain of good fruit | |
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| bstqltmkr - 2006-07-23 8:57 AM
This nonattachment theme, is that the Buddist ideal of nonattachment? As a mother, really I have a hard time with this. I think how nice for them that they can feel this way, but in my physical reality, I just don't see it as possible. Maybe I have something wrong in my thinking, but my love for my children is a real bond, I can't even see it as undesirable even if it ends up hurting in the long run. Also, in one book I read, one part of the definition on Samadhi was feeling a connection to all things. I'll warn you, and say I have a problem with language, but to me connection and attachment are very similar words.
Non-attachment is normally a highly misunderstood concept. Non-attachment doesn't mean that you don't love. Love binds you not because you "love". It binds you because you love because you think it is "yours". Your children are lovable just because they are there & you happen to be there as well. Why do you think, you should love them only because they are "yours". Think of it - are they really "yours"? Is it necessary to label them as "MINE" as a precondition for "loving" ?
Samadhi is the highest stage in Meditation. Achieving this stage depends upon how pure you are & also your practice. You may keep on meditating for life & yet not get into this mode. Some people are born pure - like, Sri Ramkrishna - he entered into Samadhi just by watching beauty of Nature at an early age. Patanjali describes it a state of eternal bliss. You become the Knowledge & the Knower --- there is nothing else to know.
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| SCThornley - 2006-07-23 3:50 PM
fruitless action?
that causes no pain
but it is still action
so, how to act without creating fruit
because no matter how sweet the fruit once it is gone, you want more--therein lies the pain of good fruit.
"because no matter how sweet the fruit once it is gone, you want more--therein lies the pain of good fruit" - That is the real wisdom, SCT. You got it !
Desires bind me. The feeling of "MY" binds me. When my actions are free from desires ( for me ) & the feeling of "MY" - the actions won't bind me. If I give & feel that ""I" am giving" - I am bound. If I give & feel that "I am doing a good work & God will reward me" - I am bound. By doing a good work with that feeling I will certainly be rewarded ( by God / Nature) but that binds me also for sure. | |
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| As usual, I'm struggling with words here. I'll try to clarify what I feel when I say my kids. My body was instrumental in bringing them into this reality, and so they are my responsibility. It's my duty to guide and care for them until that day when they can do for themselves. I love them, and I like to think its unconditional. I can't imagine anything they could do would ever stop the love flowing from my heart for them. I certainly don't imagine that I own them, they are their own person. I don't think there was any precondition, they were here, and they were "mine", and I love them. It was all at the same time.
Thanks for saying non-attachment is highly misunderstood, it makes me feel a little less hard headed.
My personal goal in meditation is to achieve some peace of mind, open my heart, and accept any knowlegde that shows itself. I guess that's a good thing, if samadhi depends on purity. Both sound like beautiful theories, not likely to become my reality any time soon. Oh well, I've made progress, and hope to continue progressing. That's the best I can do for now. | |
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| BQ - I am not sure moms like you and I are 100% ready for non-attachment to our children Perhaps we have them to help us learn some of the lessons around attachment? As long as I live I think I will have that deep, gut wrenching (in a good way) feeling of emotional attachment to them. I can be pretty subjective about them sometimes, but bottom line is that motherhod thing. | |
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| tourist - 2006-07-24 12:44 PM
BQ - I am not sure moms like you and I are 100% ready for non-attachment to our children Perhaps we have them to help us learn some of the lessons around attachment? As long as I live I think I will have that deep, gut wrenching (in a good way ) feeling of emotional attachment to them. I can be pretty subjective about them sometimes, but bottom line is that motherhod thing.
The pain of attachment to offspring is paramount, for Dad as well. | |
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| An illustration of attachment, some never get over the lost of their love one, and reduced to tears upon the thought of the lost, or filled with guilt. It is like the mind wants to continue to glue to the past, fixed in great sadness, which leads to sufferings. If one practices non-attachment, allowing the past to pass, one can free the mind and the soul (including the deceased), and be able to lead a happier life. Letting go is easier said than done, but not to let go is for certain to generate an undesirable outcome in our lives. I think it is human’s responsibilities, and a gift to one to enjoy a loving parent-child relationship, there is no attachment in question. Unless one yearns for more and better relationship, and without which one is miserable, then that is attachment that need to be worked on. This is what I read about surrendering: By ready to surrender them (our attachments) at the appropriate time, our consciousness becomes like a pure crystal that allows the light of our authentic Self, the atman, to shine through brilliantly without distortion. Would appreciate input so I can learn more, and hopeful, see the light. Namaste | |
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| ystan - 2006-07-24 3:58 PM
An illustration of attachment, some never get over the lost of their love one, and reduced to tears upon the thought of the lost, or filled with guilt. It is like the mind wants to continue to glue to the past, fixed in great sadness, which leads to sufferings. If one practices non-attachment, allowing the past to pass, one can free the mind and the soul (including the deceased), and be able to lead a happier life. Letting go is easier said than done, but not to let go is for certain to generate an undesirable outcome in our lives. I think it is human’s responsibilities, and a gift to one to enjoy a loving parent-child relationship, there is no attachment in question. Unless one yearns for more and better relationship, and without which one is miserable, then that is attachment that need to be worked on. This is what I read about surrendering: By ready to surrender them (our attachments) at the appropriate time, our consciousness becomes like a pure crystal that allows the light of our authentic Self, the atman, to shine through brilliantly without distortion. Would appreciate input so I can learn more, and hopeful, see the light. Namaste
this weekend I met a fella who lost his son
this caused him great pain, but said that his Yoga practice helped keep him sane and helped get him over the life destroying event.
I totally relate to this good man, for I have four children and a wife and live my life as if they will always be there.
He invited me to come and be a part of his 'community' and i took him up on it.
I only bring this up because I believe rain falls on everyones house and dark days happen for all of us, eventually, and sometimes we all hit the bottom, it just depends on how prepared you are for the hit, so will you bounce or break?
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| I only bring this up because I believe rain falls on everyones house and dark days happen for all of us, eventually, and sometimes we all hit the bottom, it just depends on how prepared you are for the hit, so will you bounce or break?
I totally agree with you, we must be prepared for the hit, and bounce back as quickly as possible, because we will never now when will the next hit be, life is unpredictable. By being attached we will make a bad situation worse, e.g. unable to focus, or ruin our health. It is our birthright to live a fulfilling and happy life, no matter what life dishes out to us. Namaste
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| Non-attachment to the past I can certainly understand, and also non-attachment to the future. Not that I'm against preparing for the future, but you never really know, and so it's better to be flexible. Here in the present though, I'm totally attached to my family. Okay, I probably do have a few other attachments to work on, but I'm not afraid of work. I try not to be greedy, I can recognize that I have everything I need for a good comfortable life and am thankful. So any idea on other areas in life where I might need to examine my attachments? Don't worry about throwing in ideas in general where someone's attachments could cause unnecessary suffering, I'm looking for ideas and not taking it personal. | |
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| bstqltmkr - 2006-07-24 5:18 PM
Non-attachment to the past I can certainly understand, and also non-attachment to the future. Not that I'm against preparing for the future, but you never really know, and so it's better to be flexible. Here in the present though, I'm totally attached to my family. Okay, I probably do have a few other attachments to work on, but I'm not afraid of work. I try not to be greedy, I can recognize that I have everything I need for a good comfortable life and am thankful. So any idea on other areas in life where I might need to examine my attachments? Don't worry about throwing in ideas in general where someone's attachments could cause unnecessary suffering, I'm looking for ideas and not taking it personal.
do you have one of those really big quilting rack machine things called something like the easy quilter or the super sew ?
it's like a big scroll for the quilt, once it's basted and it has a movable base for where your machine sits and you can trace a pattern while you machine quilt
You may have attachment to your most beautiful creations, maybe?
I know that my wife can get pretty 'wrapped up' in a quilting project, and I always do my best to give her the best audience i can when she needs it. | |
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| No, I don't have one, and quilt by hand. It takes much longer, but is also like therapy so I enjoy it. I imagine I'm attached to the talents or skills I use, but really I try to view it as a gift from my ancestors, and not take credit or waste it. I've given lots of quilts away, and try not to be attached to the finished product. Of course on a cold winter night I'm attached to my quilts, haha. If I show my husband a project I'm working on, he says, is it done yet? | |
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| Lord Krishna says, "You must do your duty (Dharma). Running away from one's duty makes you fall & a sinner". Should I love my children ? - Yes, I am a father & it's my duty. Will it bind me ? - If I am attached to "MY", if I don't realise that this "Father - Child" phenomena is just a passing episode on the great stage of life, if I don't always remember that "my children" are also the same great, eternal, blissful Atman like me & that the relationship is attached to bodies & the body will perish & is impermanent & so is the relationship.
I will tell you a story :
Devaki, the biological mother of Lord Krishna, had given birth to 8 children. 7 of them were killed by Kansa ( Devaki's brother, who was destined to be killed by 8th son of Devaki). After the end of the war, once Devaki told Krishna - My son, I have a desire to meet my other 7 (dead) children. I didn't even hold them in my hands properly & they were killed before my eyes & this thought burns me ceaselessly. I just want to hug them once. Can you arrange for that ? You are the Almighty & can easily do this. Will you do this for your mother?"
Lord Krishna smiled & said, "Mother, you won't be happy meeting them. Moreover, it is against the nature & not in order to disturb who have gone from this world. Forget it. They came here due their Karma & now they have gone back to their abode. Nobody takes birth & nobody dies. It is all illusion - why do you bind yourself with that illusion ?" Devaki was not ready to listen anything. The Mother's attachment is really great & can be understood by a mother only. When all efforts failed & Devaki kept on insisting, Lord Krishna found himself in a difficult situation in front of his own mother. Finally, he said, "OK. So be it !" & with his supernatural powers he took his mother to the abode where those "children of Devaki" resided. Devaki found herself on a beautiful land where 7 Old Sages were meditating. Lord Krishna went to them with Devaki & explained to them the reason for their visit. All 7 sages started laughing loudly at Devaki. One of them said, "Do you remember how many times you were born as my child ? A number of times ! I never claimed that you were "my child". I was born only once to you & that too only for a very small period & you thought I was "your child" & you came chasing me upto this abode to disturb me ? Birth & death are just illusion. Don't waste our & other's time." .... And that was how Devaki became free from her attachment. | |
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| Devotee – Thanks for various thought provoking and interesting postings. I need some guidance to clear my confusion over the difference between contemplation (thinking) and attachment (monkey brain). When certain thoughts appeared, it always starts with a situation, as I analyzed the situation, I would arrive at the cause and effect of the situation, and next come flashes of various outcome if I take certain path, later, I would come to a conclusion on my action items, that can be doing nothing, or action plans for the days or weeks ahead. I noticed if I did not act on my conclusion, these thoughts will keep repeating until the time of closure. How would you classify this mode of mind behavior? Namaste | |
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| ystan--it sounds like "inner quidence to me" or "free will". The fact that you are contemplating it all and attempting to understand and do the best for yourself.......I would say 'keep on keepin' on'. Alice Bailey's books get into much of how our minds work and when spirit and soul integrate etc. Most people think her books way too heavy but I find them so helpful in such matters---find nothing else that stimulates my thinking more than she.......she channels Djwal Khul. I will scim some of her books and see if I find an answer that might assist your understanding.....I am reading with you in mind these days......but yesterday I picked up 'The Source' by Mitchner and it is 4 or 5 inches thick--I have chosen to side track myself in an attempt to better understand-----it ALL! | |
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| bstqltmkr detachment might be a lifetime challenge to understand. I have only glimpsed the true meaning a couple of times briefly. As an older person with children all raised and living alone with nothing to hold my interest other than my spiritual persuit I am still learning detachment and then I will have to learn 'detachment from detachment' (smile) Possibly we are not meant to totally grasp these concepts...........possibly as we grasp, they expand, so we have to keep grasping at other levels. Just know that the fact that you are contemplating the concepts means you are expanding your consciousness........good job!! Judamom | |
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| ystan - 2006-07-25 4:37 AM
Devotee – Thanks for various thought provoking and interesting postings. I need some guidance to clear my confusion over the difference between contemplation (thinking) and attachment (monkey brain). When certain thoughts appeared, it always starts with a situation, as I analyzed the situation, I would arrive at the cause and effect of the situation, and next come flashes of various outcome if I take certain path, later, I would come to a conclusion on my action items, that can be doing nothing, or action plans for the days or weeks ahead. I noticed if I did not act on my conclusion, these thoughts will keep repeating until the time of closure. How would you classify this mode of mind behavior? Namaste
Dear Ystan,
I am not sure whether I am able to understand your question correctly.
I am not able to correlate how confusion is arising between attachment & thinking ? Both the things are not directly related to each other. What is attachment ? It is nothing but being bound to worldly affairs which are nothing but illusion like - desires for enjoyment ( for sense organs or mind), possesiveness ( the feeling of MY), hatred, Fear of pain, sadness due to loss etc. The more you tend to cling to worldly things/ emotions the more you get bound to them.
Now coming to Thinking -
i)If you decide to take a certain path to resolve an issue & you don't do it that way, it keeps on haunting you as you have failed to keep your promise to yourself. It is a mental process which tries to help you to keep your promises. This has nothing to do with attachment. In fact, it is a self correcting process in mind.
ii) However, this can be because of attachment also. When you have conciously decided to do or not to do a thing & yet it keeps haunting you without any valid reasons, it may be due to your unnecessary attachment to that object or matter in question. | |
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| Dear Devotee, You said, “What is attachment? It is nothing but being bound to worldly affairs which are nothing but illusion”, “The more you tend to cling to worldly things/ emotions the more you get bound to them.” My thoughts are almost always about worldly affairs, and the problems and its solutions, as I continue to be in this mode, moving from a solved situation to another situation, are these thoughts consider as undesirable attachments? Namaste | |
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| Judamom -- thank you for keeping me in your thoughts! I am honored. Namaste. | |
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| ystan - 2006-07-25 11:54 AM
My thoughts are almost always about worldly affairs, and the problems and its solutions, as I continue to be in this mode, moving from a solved situation to another situation, are these thoughts consider as undesirable attachments?
Always thinking about worldly affairs may be due to attachment & it may not be. It depends upon what you are thinking. There are worldly affairs which are actually your Dharma/duty & you must think about them to carry out your duty properly. This in itself is not attachment. You may carry out all your daily chores of your life & still remain non-attached. You can peform all your duties of a father/mother/son/teacher/worker/manager/priest/cook/fisherman/sanitary cleaner/politician/bar dancer etc... & remain non-attached. No work by itself is good or bad / attaching or non-attaching / higher or lower. The important thing is how you do it & not what you do.
We can ask simple questions to test :
i) Why I am doing it ? - If it is for my comforts, jealousy, any desires, it is attachment.
ii) Do I feel good or bad (for long) when I achieve desired results & when I don't ? If yes, then it is attachment.
iii) Am I attached to any object /person because of my worldly desires or because it is "mine" ? - Yes - means attachment.
iv) Are my decisions getting affected by subjects of sense organs / enjoyment of mind ? "Yes" means attachment again.
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| Dear Devotee, Thanks again for your reply. Now, using some hypothetical example, how would a non-attached person go about handling the following? Do I feel good or bad (for long) when I achieve desired results & when I don't? – One loves to help others, and must help others in order to feel one is contributing to mankind. Am I attached to any object /person because of my worldly desires or because it is "mine"? – One frequently think of a deceased love with loving and joyful thoughts. Namaste | |
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| ystan - 2006-07-25 11:56 PM
Do I feel good or bad (for long ) when I achieve desired results & when I don't? – One loves to help others, and must help others in order to feel one is contributing to mankind.
Helping mankind is of a higher level karma & it purifies the Jeevatma (soul) if done selflessly. If you do it as a duty, there is no attachment involved. Lord Krishna says, "Yagna ( works done for God, & /or for knowing the self) , charity & tapa ( i.e. descipline for purifying oneself) must not be left under any pretext". However, if you do this for attaining heaven, it is not bad but you get attached to the good karma.
Am I attached to any object /person because of my worldly desires or because it is "mine"? – One frequently think of a deceased love with loving and joyful thoughts.
That is a sign of attachment & it is not good if you "frequently think". | |
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| Devotee, thank you for guidance! Namaste | |
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| Yes Devotee, I have to echo Ystan, and thank you. I was thinking about emotions recently, and I'll explain why. When I was younger, I suppose it could be said that I couldn't deal well with my emotions. As a result, I closed myself off into a hard shell, no one could hurt me. After my children were born, I felt love in a way I never knew before. After this, I couldn't keep the hard shell in place, nor did I want to. Once I let them, I think my emotions were making up for lost time, often I was happy or sad, things were pretty intense. Now my goal as far as emotion is to feel my feelings, let them pass without clinging, learn what I can from them, but mostly control my actions while I feel them. Not to let my emotions rule my actions. I think I've made progress with that, any feedback on my theory anyone, or idea on what the next goal should be? | |
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| bstqltmkr - 2006-07-26 11:59 AM
feel my feelings, let them pass without clinging, learn what I can from them, but mostly control my actions while I feel them. Not to let my emotions rule my actions. I think I've made progress with that, any feedback on my theory anyone, or idea on what the next goal should be?
You are just on the right path. If what you say is true then you must have started getting the feel of "Peace", which it immediately brings. This practice of non-attachment makes you master of situations in this world apart from making you ready for liberation. You will be able to deal with many difficult situations so easily which others would struggle to deal with. Only one thing I would like to add to clear things for the better : The practice of non-attachment is difficult initially. Some times people think that it is either a state of Attchment or complete Non-attachment which is not true. There is a continuous spectrum of shades from Attchment to Non-attachment. There are varying degrees of attachment & non-attachment. We have to move consistently towards the Non-attachment. Complete Non-attachment will come only at the point of liberation. Keep yourself aware where you stand.
I hope you are doing meditation. Practising Meditation combined with practice of non-attachment is enough for liberation. The practice of Non-attachment keeps on purifying us. We have to slowly but consistenty keep on examining critically our attachments with pleasures/pains related with sense organs & mind & our attachments with this world ... that is the goal ... complete Non-attachment ... Liberation. | |
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| Yes, I am practicing meditation, and also practicing yoga, and I can't imagine I would have gotten this far without it. Thank you for the encouragement, as I still have a long way to go. | |
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| I found some answers on inner voices and mind chattering. This article was there waiting for my discovery! I appreciate feedback on this approach to meditation. Never-Ending ConversationQuieting the mind doesn't have to mean shushing your many inner voices. By letting them have their say, you can discover the all-encompassing stillness of Big Mind. By John KainNamaste http://www.yogajournal.com/meditation/1387.cfm
Edited by ystan 2006-07-29 6:31 AM
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| Hi Judamom, I like where you said nonattachment might be a lifetime challenge. That seems to be the same amount of time I have here, so I suppose it's doable.
Ystan, thanks for sharing that interesting read. There is a ton of information packed into that yoga journal website, I like to search there also. Namaste. | |
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